Like many other mid-twenty-something Millennials, I am currently feeling lost in the decision making of “what do I want to do when I grow up?“. Career decision making is a mystery to me. I don’t know what I want to do.
I have never known what I wanted to do.
I change my mind every other day.
It stresses out my parents to no end, and it is a constant worry. The voice inside my head is always saying “What is your career gonna be?” or “Just figure it out, alrighty!”. And to make it worse, I don’t know how to start figuring out what I want to do.
I have been very lucky since graduating university to have two “adult” job positions with opportunities to build experience and skills. But they didn’t really feel right. Something was missing. Countless people have told me, “You’re young. You’ve got all the time in the world to figure that out” but I continue to feel anxious about not knowing how to answer that question
In an effort to answer that question, I need to take some time for myself over the next few months. I have officially put in my notice at my current jobs and I have decided to travel to new and wonderful international destinations to contemplate all of those “adult decisions” that lie ahead of me. Traveling gives me the ability to clear my mind and reestablish my values.
I have this knack for just hitting the road when I’m going through a transition period. I did this in college twice, and again in 2012. I find that my decisions are made better abroad.
For the next three months, I plan to travel to 7 different countries through Europe, Africa and Asia. Below is a map of my projected itierinary, although in classic traveling fashion, this is bound to change in the months ahead.
What is unique about this trip is the wide array of different types of traveling that I will be doing. I will be traveling with family & loved ones in Turkey & Greece to celebrate my Dad’s retirement. My Dad is chartering the Dolce Mare Gulet for 3 full weeks! We will be visiting a variety of the Greek Islands, including Mykonos, Santorini, Kos, & Naxos.
Prior to boarding the boat, Sam & I will be spending 5 days exploring the beautiful and historic Istanbul, Turkey. En route back from the gullet, we will be making a long layover in Athens. This is sure to be a fun time for all, and I am especially excited to spend time abroad with my extended family.
I will depart from family & Sam in Athens, and will continue on solo for the remaining 2 months. On the next leg of the trip, I will be traveling with a tour operator, Intrepid Travel, to Jordan & Egypt. This is a part of the world I have never traveled to. And I am certainly nervous considering recent news out of the region, but I believe that working through a tour company that is reputable like Intrepid will be a great way to explore the historic sights of this region safely.
This is a new experience for me. I have never traveled with a tour company as an adult. I did so as a student with People to People and International Student Volunteers, both of which were excellent and formative experiences in my youth. Those positive experiences encouraged me to take a risk, and try out Intrepid.
We will spend 22 days traveling through the “Jordan & Egypt Uncovered” tour and the itinerary is focused on cultural and historic sights. Stops along the way include Petra, Luxor, the Pyramids of Giza, and Alexandria. But we will also have amble opportunities for adventure travel, including camping in Wadi Rum and the White Desert.
Once the tour completes, I will be taking a long layover in Dubai on my way to Nepal. All the flights from Cairo to Kathmandu stopped in the UAE, so I decided, why not stay for a few extra days! I don’t have really any plans there besides just exploring the city and going to the top of the Burj.
After 3 days in Dubai, I will continue on to meet up with friends in Nepal. A close friend from Semester at Sea is from Nepal and is currently living and working in Kathmandu. I have always been a mountain lover, and Nepal has been at the top of my travel list for years now strictly for it’s geographical beauty.
As I prepare for Nepal, I am becoming increasingly more excited to explore the historical and cultural sights as well. With a local to help show me around, Nepal might be the destination I am most excited for.
For the final leg of the trip, I hope to take an overland route across the Himalaya mountains into China and Tibet. This is visa & permit pending, so I won’t know for sure until I arrive in Kathmandu if I will be able to accomplish this leg of the trip. But right now, the plans stands to link up with a overland & trekking tour company who takes tourists from Nepal into Tibet, with stops at monasteries, Everest Base Camp, and mountain towns along the way. If I am successful, I plan to take 10 days crossing the Himalayas into China, and then fly home from there, via Lhasa & Shanghai.
Here is my itinerary as it stands now, as well as a map of it above. This is subject to change, but hopefully it will look something like this:
- August 9th-August 14th: Istanbul, Turkey
- August 15th: Ephesus, Turkey
- August 16th- August 30th: Greek Isles
- August 31st- September 3rd: Athens, Greece
- September 4th-September 12th: Amman, Jordan & surrounding areas
- September 13th-26th: Egypt, including Cairo, Alexandria, Luxor, & Siwa
- September 27th-Sept 30th: Dubai, United Arab Eremites
- October 1st-21st: Nepal, including Kathmandu, Pokhara, Bhaktapur, & Chitwan
- October 22nd- November 2nd (tentative): Overland tour into Tibet
- November 3rd (tentative): Return to US
This will be an exciting, nerve-wrecking, adventurous and exploratory time in my life. It hasn’t really sunk in that it is really happening yet, but as it continues to approach I get more and more excited about the endless adventures I am about to endeavor on.
I plan to blog and document the trip the entire time, but that is obviously dependent on internet access. With a myriad of social media outlets, hopefully you can follow my trip!